It’s that time of year again, when you can get two for one deals on Valentines chocolates and we turn to Mother’s Day (March 22nd) for the next national holiday, stopping on the way for a stack of pancakes bigger than your face on Shrove Tuesday (Feb 25th). Versions of these celebrations date back to ancient times, such as the Roman festival of Hilaria or the Christian Mothering Sunday event (which was actually regarding the church as the mother figure, rather than our actual mothers). The modern “Mother’s day”, which occurs on the fourth Sunday of lent in the UK and at various times throughout the year in other countries, was brought into fashion in the early 20th century. It’s foundation is attributed to a US woman named Anna Jarvis, who led the movement for it to be a recognised national holiday in the wake of her mothers death.
They Give Us Life, We Give Them Flowers
We all owe a lot to our mothers. Even the least attentive still carried us for 9 months, which is a long time to carefully care for both yourself and a tiny life growing inside you. We may go on to do anything and be anyone, but everyone has a mother, who made it all possible, with a father too of course. It takes two to tango. Mother’s day then should really be every day, and many of us won’t let a day pass without showing our appreciation. However, taking one day a year to be especially appreciative is a great gesture. And as with many things in life, we get out of it what we put in, so whilst many moan about having to buy things for this “money making scheme” others are happily turning up with a bunch of flowers, some chocolates and maybe something extra special, leaving even happier knowing they have let that special person know how special they are.
The Student Becomes The Master
Over time, the role of caregiver gives way to a more relaxed relationship. As life passes by that relationship, the longest one in your life, grows. We may even be bringing our own children into the world and begin seeing the other side of mother’s day, but it’s still important to remember who made it all possible. Fast forward again and we reach a point where we no longer need them to help us, but they instead need a little help here and there as bodies and minds stop working like they used to in old age. At this age, long after you have moved out, they may end up moving back in with you, temporarily or permanently. Maybe they will come visit for the holidays, or around Mother’s Day. At their advanced age, they may require specialist equipment, which is why a number of companies now offer at home care equipment rentals. Don’t let your lack of amenities get in the way of your mother coming to visit. Show how much you appreciate them before they’re gone.
And don’t forget to get flowers too! It’s on the 22nd of March this year!